I’m a people pleaser. I’m Midwest nice. I’m an INFP, so much so it’s getting in the way of growth. Professionally and personally. I care more about making others feel at ease with their ideas and not rocking the boat than being objective and honest about that thing that will drive growth. My desire and pride in pleasing others and having others like me is a form of vanity getting in the way of growth. Does this mean I need to turn into a hardass? No, not all of the time. But sometimes.
Perspective is powerful. This new perspective will empower me and help me understand when to flip that switch… bitch 😉